what is love?does it matter if it happens b4 or aftr marriage?love or arranged?or if it doesnt happen after?

Question

what is love?does it matter if it happens b4 or aftr marriage?love or arranged?or if it doesnt happen after?

Answer 1

To be honest, I agree with arranged marriages only if the future husband and wife have chosen to marry like that, not if they were forced to accept an arranged marriage. I think for most people it's normal to fall in love first and then get married. But this doesn't mean you cannot fall in love with your partner even if you got an arranged marriage. Nor does it mean that love marriages have better chances of being successful than arranged ones. But usually, if you fall in love and then get married, you already know your partner quite well and you already know you want to be with him. With arranged marriages is a bit more difficult because you get to discover your partner only after you got married. If you like the way he treats you, his personality and his looks, if he is the kind of person you would have chosen anyway, then you are lucky and you will end up loving your partner. But if you don't like him... well, then you have a problem: you can either learn how to live with him or divorce him, neither of them good options in my opinion.



As to what love is... I think it's when you feel you want to be with a person and share with them every moment of your life. You feel you can talk and do anything together, you feel happy and fulfilled for no apparent reason, you feel like nothing is too hard if that person is next to you.

Answer 2

Love is something you feel for a person when you care more about their well being than your own and all you think about is them. Love can happen at any time and you don't have to be married. Love happens to teenagers, adults and animals and even families. Love is never arranged. You can't grow to love someone it just happens. Eventually you will find someone. Don't be in a hurry to find love it will come to you when you least expect it.